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The Power of Starting Something Stupid

by Richie Norton

Richie Norton''s The Power of Starting Something Stupid invites you to transform fear into action by embracing seemingly foolish ideas. Discover how to turn these into success stories and live a life without regret. Learn practical strategies to chase dreams, overcome fear, and leverage networks, making your ''stupid'' ideas the cornerstone of your success.

The Power of Starting Something 'Stupid'

What if the ideas you most hesitate to pursue—the ones that seem impractical, absurd, or downright stupid—are actually the smartest moves you could make? In The Power of Starting Something Stupid, Richie Norton contends that embracing so-called 'stupid' ideas is the key to unlocking creativity, courage, and freedom. The book’s central argument is simple yet profound: the opportunities we often dismiss as unrealistic or risky are precisely those that can lead to fulfillment and success.

Norton’s premise is built on the paradox that what sounds stupid at first often becomes “The New Smart.” From Steve Jobs to Sara Blakely (Spanx), many of the world’s most accomplished people turned seemingly foolish visions into innovations that changed industries and lives. Norton challenges readers to replace fear and hesitation with action through his guiding principle: Gavin’s Law—Live to start. Start to live. He insists that life is too short to defer possibilities, and urges readers to turn dreams into experiments instead of waiting for a perfect time that will never come.

Rethinking What’s “Smart”

Traditional thinking tells us to avoid risk, follow logic, and pursue what’s safe. But Norton flips that logic on its head. Real breakthroughs, he argues, come from ideas that challenge assumptions and appear unconventional or naive. The book reframes “stupid” as a compliment—a word used by those who can’t see your vision yet. Like Ralph Waldo Emerson’s line that “In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts,” Norton shows that the path to genius is paved with the courage to start something that others might not understand.

Why Starting Matters More Than Perfect Planning

At the heart of the book is the act of starting. Beginning before you feel fully prepared is what separates dreamers from doers. Norton recounts stories—from entrepreneurs selling used jeans overseas to bloggers turning small projects into multimillion-dollar ventures—demonstrating that motion creates clarity. Starting something “stupid” means leaning into fear, resource constraints, and perceived inadequacy instead of waiting for ideal circumstances. The power isn’t in knowing how everything will end; it’s in being willing to take the first imperfect step.

The Cost of Waiting

Much of Norton’s conviction stems from profound personal loss. After losing his brother-in-law and infant son, he realized how fragile time is and how easy it is to waste life waiting for “someday.” His reflections on mortality anchor the book emotionally: he urges readers to reject the “Deferred Life Plan”—the trap of postponing happiness until retirement, wealth, or perfect readiness. Instead, he calls for a radical shift: treat each day as a limited opportunity to act on what matters most right now.

What You’ll Discover in This Summary

This exploration unpacks Norton’s major principles. You’ll learn how to reinterpret “stupid” as “smart,” follow Gavin’s Law to beat procrastination, and apply the Bezos Test (“Will I regret it when I’m 80?”) to your biggest choices. You’ll also see how to navigate the T.E.M. Gap—overcoming excuses about lacking time, education, or money—and transform ideas into action through small, experimental projects. Later sections explore how to crush fear, end pride, live authentically, and connect with others using the START framework (Serve, Thank, Ask, Receive, Trust). Finally, Norton shows how leveraging existing resources and integrating humility can make even the wildest dream executable.

Ultimately, The Power of Starting Something Stupid is not just a motivational manifesto—it’s a practical reorientation of how you view possibility. Norton doesn’t urge reckless impulsiveness but courageous creativity. His thesis: “Stupid” is often just the name people give to visionary ideas before they understand them. The book challenges you to act now, to start small but start something—because real regret comes not from failure, but from never beginning at all.


Gavin’s Law: Live to Start, Start to Live

Richie Norton’s personal tragedy gave birth to his most urgent idea: Gavin’s Law. After losing his young brother-in-law and infant son, he realized that waiting for perfect moments or guarantees is a dangerous illusion. Gavin’s Law means that true living begins when you start—however flawed or uncertain your beginning may be. “Live to start” is a call to action; “start to live” is the reward.

The Myth of the Perfect Time

People delay their dreams because they believe someday will be easier, richer, or safer. Norton dismantles this belief. Life doesn’t pause until you’re ready; it keeps moving, often faster than you expect. By the time “someday” arrives, opportunities are gone. Gavin’s Law insists that you stop deferring action on the projects, relationships, or passions that matter most. There will never be a moment when you have enough time, certification, or money—and waiting only strengthens fear.

Choice Over Circumstance

Norton argues that you can’t control every circumstance, but you can control your attitude and response. Drawing from Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning, he emphasizes that choosing your direction, even in hardship, restores agency. Gavin’s Law reframes tragedy into purpose: rather than letting loss paralyze you, use it as fuel to take meaningful risks. It isn’t about ignoring grief or fear—it’s about honoring life by refusing to waste it in hesitation.

Breaking the Waiting Cycle

Gavin’s Law exposes the “Deferred Life Plan” trap—the belief that you should work, save, and suffer now so one day you can finally enjoy freedom. Norton saw this mentality destroy creativity and joy in the people around him. He redefines success not as accumulation but alignment: living in harmony with your passions today, not 40 years from now. Gavin’s Law invites you to recalibrate risk. The danger isn’t starting; the danger is waiting until the chance is gone.

If you live to start, you’ll discover that the act of beginning animates life itself. The more you start, the more alive you become. As Norton writes, “Once you overcome the fear of starting, the momentum to keep going will carry you to success—or somewhere even better.”


Stupid Is the New Smart

In one of the book’s most provocative ideas, Norton proposes that stupidity—when redefined—is the key to innovation. “Stupid” ideas are merely untested ideas ahead of their time. From Walt Disney and the Beatles to Steve Jobs, countless visionaries were told their efforts were foolish before changing the world. Norton calls this paradox “Stupid as the New Smart.”

The Paradox of Stupid

True stupidity isn’t ignorance—it’s unconventional intelligence. Creative risk often looks ridiculous at first glance because it contradicts existing norms. Take Sara Blakely, who revolutionized fashion with Spanx despite being told no one would buy footless pantyhose. Like Henry Ford or Orville and Wilbur Wright, she saw past prevailing logic to something deeper. Norton invites you to view every dismissive laugh as evidence that you’re onto something.

The Creative Puzzle and Innate Sensibility

How can you tell the difference between destructive stupidity and creative genius? Norton explains that “innate sensibility” is your internal compass—a felt sense of direction that guides you toward meaningful projects even when others doubt you. Enthusiasm may ignite excitement, but sensibility sustains action. Like assembling a puzzle, your task is to fit the pieces through intuition, experiment, and persistence rather than logic alone. (This idea echoes Malcolm Gladwell’s argument in Blink about the power of instinctive judgment.)

To embrace the New Smart, stop equating intelligence with conformity. Start by testing your “stupid” ideas in real life through experiments and small projects. The world calls it foolishness until it works—and then calls it genius.


The Bezos Test: Will I Regret It When I'm 80?

Jeff Bezos’s decision to leave Wall Street and start Amazon stemmed from a simple question: When I’m 80, will I regret not trying this? Norton uses this as a universal thought experiment: project yourself into old age and measure decisions not by safety, but by potential regret. The Bezos Test turns fear upside down—what’s scarier, failing or wondering forever 'what if'?

Future Regret Equals Today’s Imperative

Norton crystallizes this as the equation: Future Regret = Today’s Imperative. If you foresee regret for not trying, then action becomes the only rational choice. It’s a mental tool for clarity when indecision strikes. Like Bezos, you focus less on immediate losses, bonuses, or approval, and more on lifelong satisfaction.

Choosing Among Many Ideas

Many readers struggle with having too many ideas at once. The Bezos Test helps filter them. Imagine your 80-year-old self reviewing your current list: which few would you most mourn leaving undone? Norton offers further refinement exercises—asking, “If this were my last act, would I be proud of it?”—to help you prioritize purpose over productivity. His friend Jase Bennett applied this to build Jaseboards, a skateboard brand launched after crushing self-doubt. What began as a ‘stupid’ project became a global business.

The Bezos Test isn’t about recklessness—it’s a framework for courage. By choosing now over 'someday,' you shrink the space where regret can grow.


The T.E.M. Gap: No Excuses

One of the most common reasons for inaction, Norton observes, is the belief that we lack Time, Education, or Money—the T.E.M. Gap. He dismantles this illusion by showing that every legendary creator faced the same shortages. What separates achievers from dreamers isn’t privilege, it’s persistence.

No Time

Time, Norton insists, is a myth of convenience. Quoting Parkinson’s Law (“work expands to fill the time available”), he notes that waiting only consumes more time. If you start now, you gain experience; if you wait, you lose both time and energy. As Theodore Roosevelt said, “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”

No Education

Stephen M. R. Covey once told Norton, “Experience is overrated.” Many claim twenty years’ experience but really have one year repeated twenty times. Norton illustrates this with Anna Hargadon, a student who created theater programs for children with autism despite lacking credentials. Her “stupid” undergraduate project matured into a full career. The lesson: experience follows courage, not the reverse.

No Money

From Oprah to Rowling to Steve Jobs, Norton shows how scarcity breeds creativity. When funds are tight, resourcefulness—bootstrapping through networks, partnerships, and ingenuity—becomes your advantage. (This echoes Napoleon Hill’s emphasis on desire over circumstance in Think and Grow Rich.) Money expands to match your habits; start lean and you’ll stay smart.

The T.E.M. Gap is only as wide as your excuses. When you bridge it through action, you collapse limitations into momentum and turn inaccessibility into innovation.


Crush Fear and End Pride

Fear and pride are twins that quietly strangle progress. Norton argues that they are the walls we build around our potential. In two of the book’s most powerful chapters, he shows how to transmute fear into achievement and pride into humility—what he calls the Humble Power Alternative.

Transforming Fear into Fuel

Through the story of surfer Andy Pierce—who broke his femur on a massive wave but returned weeks later—Norton reveals that fear is not an enemy but an indicator. Big goals create big fear, and managing that fear leads directly to mastery. He proposes the Fear Compensation Model: break high aspirations into small wins, incrementally expanding comfort and confidence. Like Eleanor Roosevelt’s advice to “do one thing every day that scares you,” each micro-victory strengthens your resilience.

Replacing Pride with Humility

Pride prevents learning and collaboration—it convinces you you’re already enough. Norton’s personal story of leaving a stable presidency after his son’s death shows how humility opens space for truth. Pride fears looking stupid; humility invites transformation. Drawing on Jim Collins’s Good to Great, he describes Level 5 leaders as being fiercely driven yet profoundly humble—attributes that enable lasting success. When you embrace the Humble Power Alternative, you replace competition with contribution and entitlement with empathy.

Overcoming fear and pride doesn’t eliminate challenge—it restores the courage to keep moving through it. As Norton writes, “Standing alone is part of standing out.”


Authenticity: The Power of Being You

Norton’s chapter on authenticity stands out as one of the book’s most human messages: success without sincerity is hollow. He argues that being authentic—living in alignment with your deepest values—is not just moral but practical; it creates trust, energy, and meaningful achievement. Real success begins when you stop performing and start being.

Success Through Authentic Risks

Photographer Mike Colón exemplifies authenticity in action. Despite nearing graduation in engineering, he gave it all up to pursue photography, enduring criticism and hardship. His decision looked “stupid” until it led him to shoot celebrities like Usher and represent Apple and Nikon. Similarly, Jonathan Canlas defied industry trends by sticking with film while everyone else went digital—and succeeded because it was true to his art. Authenticity, Norton emphasizes, doesn’t mean following trends; it means following truth.

Becoming Comfortable with Discomfort

Authenticity requires courage to do what you’re not ready for. Quoting Marissa Mayer of Yahoo, Norton encourages readers to “find the courage to do things you’re not ready to do.” Growth always feels awkward because you’re expanding your identity. Yet, as Confucius said, “I want you to be everything that’s you, deep at the center of your being.”

By making choices aligned with who you are, you turn integrity into a creative force. Authenticity, Norton concludes, “is always right”—because being true to yourself amplifies everything you do.


START: Serve, Thank, Ask, Receive, Trust

Norton’s START framework distills five actions that convert ideas into relationships and opportunity: Serve, Thank, Ask, Receive, and Trust. Inspired by Gandhi’s endurance and Craig Kielburger’s activism, START is both a mindset and method for momentum.

Serve and Thank

Service, he writes, is the fastest path to credibility. Gandhi began his movement by teaching English to Indians in Pretoria and built lasting trust through humble service. Kielburger, at age 12, founded Free the Children after reading about child labor in Pakistan. His simple act of caring—speaking to classmates—grew into an organization impacting millions. Service plants the roots of influence; gratitude waters them. Norton uses stories like his wife’s encounter with a grateful homeless woman to show how thankfulness multiplies opportunity. Gratitude is magnetism in motion.

Ask and Receive

Courageous asking connects missions. Filmmaker Justin Lyon fulfilled his dream by asking industry figures like producers Rupert Molen and Christian Jacobs for advice and collaboration—leading to Yo Gabba Gabba!. He “mission matched” his goals with theirs, creating mutual benefit. Equally vital is learning to receive—graciously accepting help, feedback, or gifts as expressions of shared humanity. Like a wide receiver in football, getting open is critical to scoring.

Trust

Trust, Norton insists, completes the loop. Captain Michael Abrashoff turned around the Navy ship USS Benfold by trusting his crew first, embodying Covey’s dictum: “Trust is the new currency of business.” Trust yourself, be trustworthy, and extend trust to others before they earn it. It breeds collaboration rather than control.

START marries authenticity with action—it’s a continuous cycle that creates networks of generosity and purpose. As Norton says, “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.”


Leverage What You Already Have

To make “stupid” dreams executable, Norton teaches the art of leverage—using existing resources creatively instead of waiting for ideal ones. Success is rarely built from scratch; it’s built from recombining what’s already within reach.

Resourcefulness Over Resources

Susan Petersen’s Freshly Picked moccasins began not with capital but with ingenuity. She recycled discarded aluminum window frames to fund materials and built her brand from a kitchen table. What she leveraged wasn’t money but creativity, persistence, and community—eventually landing on the cover of Parenting magazine. Like Archimedes declaring, “Give me a place to stand, and I shall move the Earth,” leverage transforms small forces into great movements.

Using the Tools Around You

Leverage can mean technology (hiring a freelancer on platforms like Upwork), relationships (strong and weak ties that open doors), or time (outsourcing tasks or using moments others waste). Norton references Google’s 20% time—a structure that lets employees innovate during work hours—as an institutional model of leverage. Mentorship, collaboration, and mutual trust multiply effects exponentially.

Ultimately, leverage is about mindset: seeing abundance where others see lack. When you START by serving and trusting, you “dig the well”; leverage lets you draw from it. Every resource needed for your next step is already within or around you—you only need to use it differently.


Live Without Regret: Your New Smart Life

The book closes by returning to Norton’s core invitation: live a New Smart life—one free from fear, pride, and procrastination. This doesn’t mean reckless adventure; it means intentional boldness guided by values. Life’s purpose, he insists, is to serve, learn, and love while you still can. The stupid idea you hesitate to start might just be your doorway to meaning.

From Stupid Idea to Purpose

Norton recalls sipping fermented mare’s milk with his Mongolian business partners and realizing how one failed 'stupid' project had nonetheless opened new worlds. Every start, even imperfect, leads forward. The goal isn’t avoiding failure but accumulating growth through starting. Among dying people, he found the same lesson: the deepest regrets weren’t about mistakes, but about inaction—about not starting.

Your Life’s Equation

A meaningful life equals alignment between action and passion. “Your life matters. Your life has purpose. You are meant to be happy,” he reminds us. Through small starts, authentic service, and fearless experimentation, you become a creator of your own legacy. Every “stupid” idea you dare to birth makes the world less ordinary and your days infinitely more alive.

The end of the book, Norton writes, is only the beginning of your new smart life—one choice, one start, and one act of courage at a time.

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