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Frenemies

by Ken Auletta

Frenemies by Ken Auletta delves into the seismic shifts in the advertising industry, exploring how technology and data are redefining traditional practices. This book reveals the challenges and opportunities in today''s digital landscape, offering a compelling narrative on the transformation of marketing strategies.

The Advertising World in Turmoil

You enter an advertising world turned inside out by distrust, technology, and converging industries. The book traces how traditional creative agencies, media buyers, platforms, and data firms collided in a struggle for power and credibility. What began as a glamorous storytelling trade—the Madison Avenue of Don Draper—mutated into an algorithmic, finance-driven, opaque system where even insiders wonder who truly represents the client. The core argument is this: advertising has become a mirror of the digital economy’s broader crisis of trust, data, and control.

This tension runs through every chapter: agencies fight to defend margins and relevance, platforms hoard data and steal share, consultants and matchmakers profit from confusion, and clients recalibrate power with audits and in-housing. Meanwhile, consumers and regulators react to invasive tracking, ad fatigue, and manipulation fears—forcing an overdue reckoning about transparency and purpose in marketing.

From Mad Men to Math Men

The old model built around creativity and 15% media commissions collapsed under data-driven accountability. Brands like P&G and Unilever demanded granular justification for fees; procurement ruled relationships; programmatic buying dominated digital media. In turn, data scientists, not art directors, began to shape strategy. Yet the book insists that algorithms alone are insufficient—human insight and empathy still anchor effective storytelling. The future belongs to hybrids who combine analytical fluency with emotional resonance.

The Trust Earthquake

In 2015, Jon Mandel’s speech at an ANA conference accused agencies of pocketing hidden rebates, igniting a multi‑billion‑dollar client revolt. The ensuing K2 Intelligence investigation validated that suspicion for many advertisers, showing how some agencies treated client relationships as transactional, not fiduciary. This blew apart decades of assumed loyalty. Clients demanded audits, transparency clauses, and independent advice; holding companies lost accounts and prestige. The clear message for you: in an age of data, invisible margins breed visible mistrust.

Power Brokers and Intermediaries

As distrust grew, intermediaries like Michael Kassan’s MediaLink stepped in as matchmakers—advising brands, agencies, publishers, and investors simultaneously. Kassan’s empire curated introductions at Cannes, CES, and boardrooms worldwide, reshaping who talked to whom. The book treats this brokerage phenomenon as both practical and problematic: it shows that when institutions fail to coordinate, new middlemen monetize relationships.

Frenemies and the Platform Ascendancy

Simultaneously, platforms such as Google, Facebook, and Amazon became both partners and predators. They sell inventory to agencies while also competing to offer end‑to‑end marketing solutions. Their control of data and measurement tilted negotiating power, prompting Martin Sorrell’s term frenemies. Consultancies like Accenture and Deloitte joined the fray, acquiring creative agencies and ad tech firms, further blurring boundaries between vendor, advisor, and competitor.

The Consumer Strikes Back

Consumers, empowered by ad blockers, subscriptions, and privacy tools, have become another form of frenemy. They crave relevant, authentic content yet reject intrusive ads. This dynamic drove native advertising, influencer collaborations, and purpose‑driven marketing as brands sought trust through storytelling rather than interruption. Yet these tactics raised ethical dilemmas about disclosure and authenticity—highlighting that credibility remains the rarest currency in digital marketing.

Data, AI, and Privacy

The narrative culminates with the rise of machine‑led marketing—AI, programmatic trading, and predictive analytics promise precision but magnify opacity. IBM’s Watson Ads, GroupM’s identifier systems, and Viv’s conversational AI illustrate both promise and peril. Parallel to this automation surge runs a privacy backlash. As regulations diverge and corporations write their own rules, marketers face dual accountability: consumer trust and data governance.

A New Playbook for You

By the book’s end, the message is hopeful but sober. Successful marketers must blend creativity with code, transparency with experimentation, and purpose with performance metrics. They need to scrutinize partners, design privacy by default, invest in credible measurement, and build brand value through genuine utility. The advertising world no longer rewards surface charm or hidden deals; it rewards those who master both storytelling and systems thinking. In short, you must become fluent in both the language of imagination and the logic of data—or risk becoming obsolete in the conversation that now defines global commerce itself.


The Collapse of Trust

The first major fracture in modern advertising came when former MediaCom CEO Jon Mandel publicly accused agencies of collecting undisclosed rebates in 2015. His warning—“Have you ever wondered why fees go down while profits go up?”—acted as a trigger for a multi‑billion‑dollar trust crisis. Clients realized the business model they funded might hide conflicts between fiduciary duty and profit motives. This wasn't merely financial; it questioned the moral foundation of an entire industry built on supposed partnership.

The K2 Investigation and Fallout

The Association of National Advertisers (ANA) commissioned K2 Intelligence and Ebiquity to audit agency practices. Their 2016 report confirmed widespread disconnects and documented undisclosed rebate arrangements reaching up to 20% of media buys. Agencies denied wrongdoing; executives like Irwin Gotlieb of GroupM called the report biased, but the reputational damage was done. Between 2015–2016, roughly $50 billion in advertising business went under review as brands demanded transparency contracts and launched audits. Trust, once implicit, now required documentation.

In some markets (Germany, Japan, parts of Latin America) rebates were legal and normalized, which complicated global moral judgments. Yet U.S. clients—used to fiduciary norms—responded as if betrayed. Procurement teams took control, media audits proliferated, and agencies faced costly compliance measures. As one investigator said, “I thought the rebates could be civil or criminal fraud.”

The Aftershocks

The scandal did not only implicate agencies—it exposed advertisers' own lax oversight. Contracts were vague, governance weak, and procurement often treated media as a commodity. The result was systemic: the trust collapse opened the door for consultants like MediaLink and Ebiquity to prosper as transparency brokers. It also accelerated a structural shift toward in‑house buying, performance‑based compensation, and competitive reviews that reshaped agency economics worldwide.

Broader Lessons

For you, the key lesson is timeless: in ecosystems of data and intermediaries, sunlight is strategy. Transparency clauses, audit rights, and independent measurement are now standard practice. When financial opacity meets algorithmic complexity, you must institutionalize trust rather than assume it. The Kickback Crisis ultimately forced the entire advertising world to look in the mirror—and realize that creativity without integrity cannot sustain its credibility.


The Agency Model Rewired

Once upon a time agencies lived off a simple 15% media commission and long‑term loyalty. By the 2000s that world was gone. Fee‑based compensation invited procurement scrutiny; digital platforms fragmented audiences; automation reshaped value creation. The book charts how creative agencies lost control to media agencies, data brokers, and platforms that could quantify every impression. You see this tension in the shift from Don Draper’s intuition to dashboards and KPIs.

From Commissions to Fees

Shell’s 1960 fee experiment with Ogilvy started a slow revolution: clients paying for time and materials rather than commissions. Procurement culture soon dominated, forcing agencies to justify headcounts line by line. As budgets tightened, agencies sought hidden margins—sometimes through opaque trading practices that later caused scandal. The creative–procurement clash defined the modern client relationship: marketers want originality; finance wants efficiency. Balancing both became the new art form.

Rise of Media Agencies

Media agencies like GroupM, Mindshare, and Xaxis became the new power players, armed with programmatic tech, data scientists, and global volume. Their so‑called “secret sauce” fuses first‑party and third‑party data into audience maps with persistent IDs—linking exposure to sales. For clients, this meant measurable ROI; for agencies, it meant recurring revenue streams built on code rather than copy. However, dependence on walled gardens and privacy laws limited scalability, while talent shortages strained execution.

From Creativity to Systems Thinking

For you as a marketer, success now requires fluency in data and storytelling alike. Programmatic systems can optimize, but they cannot imagine. Creativity remains the differentiator that algorithms can't replicate. Leading brands now build hybrid teams—data modelers, anthropologists, producers, and strategists—to merge insight with measurement. The old agency silos have melted into a matrix where performance and imagination share the same brief.


Platforms and Power

As the book recounts, the real shift in advertising isn't just from analog to digital—it's from intermediaries to platforms. Google, Facebook, and Amazon dominate global ad spend by owning user data, distribution, and measurement. Martin Sorrell labeled them 'frenemies': essential to brand reach yet direct competitors for ad budgets. These companies not only sell inventory but also build automation tools and analytics once offered by agencies. The result is vertical integration of marketing itself.

The Data Monopoly

Platforms’ first‑party data forms an unparalleled moat. They know who you are, where you browse, what you watch, and what you buy. Their algorithms personalize ad delivery in milliseconds, “grading their own homework” without independent verification. Facebook’s inflated video metrics and YouTube’s brand‑safety controversies illustrated how self‑measurement erodes trust. Still, advertisers rely on these walled gardens because they deliver scale and precision no one else can match.

Talent Wars and Cultural Gravity

The platforms’ gravitational pull extends beyond budgets to human capital. They lure away data scientists, strategists, and engineers from agencies with better pay and missions that promise impact. This “brain drain” weakens traditional networks and pushes agencies to reinvent themselves as consultative advisors. For you, this redefines partnership: you must manage, not outsource, your relationship with platforms. Build in‑house analytic literacy or risk dependency on entities whose incentives may diverge from yours.

Network TV and Legacy Adaptation

Traditional media hasn't surrendered. CBS under Les Moonves reinvented its revenue base through retransmission fees, content licensing to Netflix, and theatrical Upfronts that sold scarcity through performance. Yet its strengths—mass reach and spectacle—face long‑term challenges from addressable, on‑demand viewing. The tension between scarcity and precision defines modern media economics: live events still command premiums, but digital distribution rewrites control of measurement, margins, and cultural conversation.


Consumers, Content, and Credibility

The digital era gave consumers the ultimate veto. With ad blockers, subscription video, and algorithms tailoring feeds, attention became harder to buy. The response was native advertising, influencer collaborations, and brand storytelling that aims to merge entertainment with marketing. Yet this blurring of church and state—editorial and advertisement—introduced new ethical and strategic tests.

Ad Blockers and Frictionless Experiences

By 2016 tens of millions used ad blockers, depriving publishers and advertisers of billions. Users sought speed, relevance, and privacy. Native ads emerged as a workaround, integrated into reading experiences or social feeds. Netflix’s sponsored New York Times feature on Narcos showcased how storytelling could substitute banners. But regulators like the FTC demanded disclosure, reminding brands that engagement without honesty breeds backlash.

Publishers and PR as Creators

Publishers struck back by launching creative studios—T Brand Studio at the New York Times, Virtue at Vice, Guardian Labs—blurring lines further. These units act as mini‑agencies offering data, production, and authenticity rooted in community voice. Similarly, PR firms like Edelman evolved into content creators, blending earned and paid media. The Vaseline Healing Project, providing aid to refugees, exemplified humanitarian storytelling aligned with commerce.

Authenticity and Generational Shifts

Millennials and Gen Z expect purpose, transparency, and utility over hype. They distrust interruption but reward authenticity. For you, that means thinking less about passive impressions and more about participatory experiences: Red Bull events, Nike+ ecosystems, or Citi Bike sponsorships that deliver tangible value. The forward‑looking brand becomes a publisher, producer, and civic actor—not just an advertiser.


Data, AI, and Ethical Precision

You now inhabit marketing’s algorithmic age—where machine learning turns signals into sales. IBM’s Watson, GroupM’s data stack, and real‑time bidding engines represent the new “Math Men.” Their promise is seductive: deliver the right message, to the right person, at the right time, automatically. But automation creates opacity and bias just as humans did with rebates years ago. The challenge has evolved from hidden fees to hidden code.

How Machines Market

Programmatic buying operates in five steps—recognize, understand, match, value, deliver—in milliseconds. Big data and AI allow contextual campaigns such as Watson Ads, where a user might ask for a soup recipe after a rainy forecast. This hyper‑personalization fuels efficiency but also dependency on data pipelines largely owned by a few tech firms. For marketers, it means mastering APIs as much as taglines.

When Algorithms Mislead

Even the most powerful models err. Facebook overstated video metrics; YouTube misplaced ads near extremist content; algorithmic bias in other sectors revealed moral blind spots built into datasets. Like financial derivatives before 2008, automated advertising can amplify small errors at global scale. Ethical design, human oversight, and transparent metrics become non‑negotiable safeguards.

Privacy and the Politics of Data

Parallel to AI’s rise comes a privacy backlash. Apps track real‑world location, cookies stitch identity across devices, and regulations diverge—Europe mandates consent, the U.S. privatizes privacy through corporate policy. As academic Christian Sandvig notes, “companies have made the decision to privatize privacy.” You must now treat ethical data usage as brand equity: build privacy by design and explain data use before regulators force disclosure.

Human + Machine

Ultimately, the winning model is hybrid. Machines offer scale; humans supply empathy and meaning. Use data to inform, not to dictate. Let algorithms optimize the path but let people define the purpose. In this synthesis—the “Mad‑and‑Math Men” alliance—lies the sustainable future of marketing where precision serves creativity rather than replaces it.


Purpose, Mediation, and the Future Game

After tracing the chaos—rebates, platforms, automation—the book ends by asking: what kind of industry do you want to build? The future of advertising depends on brands reclaiming trust through purpose and mediation. Marketing must reconnect with human needs, not just efficient impressions. Unilever’s Keith Weed put it simply: purposeful brands grow faster. That insight links every narrative thread—from transparency crises to privacy battles—into a single imperative: trust is the new performance metric.

MediaLink and the Relationship Economy

Even amid automation, human brokers remain powerful. Michael Kassan’s MediaLink grew by orchestrating trust—curating senior introductions at CES or Cannes. When he sold to Ascential in 2017, it affirmed that relationships themselves had become monetizable assets. For you, the takeaway is that no algorithm replaces credible human mediation. Whether you lead marketing or procurement, your brand equity depends on the relationships you maintain as much as the data you collect.

Purpose-Driven Strategy

Campaigns from Dove’s “Real Beauty” to Citi Bike show that when brands contribute real value, advertising turns into participation. Purpose can’t be a veneer—it must align with both brand heritage and user experience. Millennials and Gen Z detect tokenism instantly, and canceled campaigns like Pepsi’s protest spot illustrate how cause marketing fails when it lacks authenticity.

Lessons for the Next Decade

As the boundaries among advertisers, publishers, platforms, and citizens blur, the marketer’s job is stewardship—of trust, of data, of meaning. Build transparency into code, privacy into design, and purpose into every creative brief. Recognize that access and empathy are now your scarcest resources. In a fragmented information economy, being the connector who acts with integrity is the ultimate competitive edge. That is the book’s parting revelation: the medium keeps changing, but responsibility remains your most sustainable brand asset.

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